Some of the most important frameworks/models/ideas I learned in the last few years which have helped me in my personal life

  1. The worst case scenario: If everything goes wrong, whats your personal worst case scenario, and is it really that bad?

  2. Write down everything: Organize your thoughts. Develop your philosophy. Get ready to contribute from Day 1

  3. Avoid zero days: A zero day is when you don’t do a single fucking thing towards whatever dream or goal or want or whatever that you got going on. No more zeros

  4. It Can All Go To Zero: Perspective can be a useful thing

  5. Hell Yeah: No “yes.” Either “HELL YEAH!” or “no.”

  6. Proximity is power: Remember it, apply it. It will change your life

  7. Time Travel: Repetition doesn’t create memories. New experiences do

  8. FUCK YES, or no.: Only pursue romantic endeavors in which everything seems to flow naturally

  9. Time is the most expensive commodity in the world: At the end of your life, when you’ve wasted lots of time, try finding someone who will trade you time for your money. It isn’t happening

  10. There’s no speed limit: If you’re more driven than most people, you can do way more than anyone expects

  11. Pomodoro: How to Work 40 Hours in 16.7

  12. 36 questions: The 36 Questions That Lead to Love

  13. Strong Opinions, Weakly Held: To deal with an uncertain future and still move forward

  14. Life is short: How you live affects how long you live. Most people could do better

  15. Life is a Picture, But You Live in a Pixel: You doesn’t live in the picture’s broad strokes, you live at all times in a single pixel of the image—a single Today

  16. The Work Required to Have an Opinion: The work required to hold an opinion means that you can argue yourself better than others can

  17. Keep your identity small: There is a step beyond thinking of yourself as x but tolerating y: not even to consider yourself an x. The more labels you have for yourself, the dumber they make you

  18. Your Whole Life Is Borrowed Time: Your life is essentially a bonus round, consisting entirely of borrowed time from the beginning

  19. Zig zag vs Straight line;Stop making big decisions and focus on closing the gap with where you want to be

  20. Say No So You Can Say Yes; say No to all those things we said Yes to over time, that have accumulated and piled up like driftwood

  21. 10/10/10; pick up/ do things which will make you happy in 10 mins, 10 months and 10 years

  22. Values and N.U.T.s;define your core values and find your N.U.T.S

  23. Plan your year through OKRs; set them in the beginning of the year and share them with people

  24. Get off the wrong bus; if you really want to get where you set out to go, you’re going to have to get off the wrong bus

  25. Identify Leaders By Giving People Assignments; simple, yet elegant way to triage an overwhelming amount of inbound requests to figure out who is really going to make shit happen

  26. Think in bets; you can’t tell the quality of a decision from the outcome

  27. Horizontal relationships vs Vertical ones; vertical relationships are hierarchical, where you see others as being either inferior or superior to you while horizontal ones are egalitarian, you see others as your equals

  28. All problems are interpersonal relationship problems; we are all suffering in interpersonal relationships

  29. Share stories, not advice; try to share stories instead of giving advice, especially in circumstances where I’m missing most of the context

  30. Boring life; chose to be actively boring

  31. Regret minimization framework; what will you regret doing/not doing when you are 80?

Note: I will keep expanding this list

Stay up to date with my latest posts/tweets here: @manas_saloi